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Foster parents are individuals or couples with
a genuine interest in children and a sense of
community responsibility.
They come from all walks of life, have a variety
of ethnic and cultural backgrounds and a variety
of experiences with child care.
Some are parents whose own children are now adults,
some also have their own biological children living
at home.
- You must have a basic understanding of the needs of children
and/or youth, and a willingness to learn.
- A foster family must provide a foster child
his or her own bed and adequate space. A foster
child may not sleep in a regular basement.
- Past experience caring for children or youth
is a definite advantage.
- Working foster parents must arrange appropriate
supervision for children and youth.
- You do not need to be married to apply.
- Love of young people, optimism, tolerance,
patience and consistency are essential to the
successful foster family.
There are many challenges for those families
who become foster parents. Children come into
the care of Durham CAS for many reasons.
Some of the reasons include:
- Physical abuse
- Sexual abuse
- Emotional abuse
- Neglect
- Family problems
- Domestic violence
- Parental problems such as substance abuse,
marital problems or health concerns.
Children and youth who have these kinds of life
experiences may present emotional and/or behavioural
challenges for the foster family.
Children and youth come into the care for varying
lengths of time. Many will eventually return to
their biological family. Some will not be able
to return home, and may stay in foster care permanently
or be placed for adoption.
The challenge for the foster family is to provide
the physical and emotional support to children,
while recognizing the difficulty of letting go
when a permanent plan is implemented.
Our workers and the Foster Parents Association
are here for you, to help you cope with these
challenges. We offer a variety of supports to assist our foster families.
The reward is knowing that you are helping children
and families.
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